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Welcome to our wedding website


We are so excited to share this special day with you! Here, you’ll find all the details about our wedding day, including venue locations, event schedules, and more.


Please explore the site, RSVP, and learn a little more about our journey together. We can’t wait to celebrate with you and create memories that will last a lifetime.


Please use our official hashtags

#RaffyAndMary

#RM2025

#TwoMadeOneInChrist

Our Covenant Journey

Our journey together is one we receive with gratitude rather than claim as our own. We recognize that apart from the Lord’s kindness and patient leading, we would not be where we are today. Scripture reminds us that while many things come through human effort, a marriage marked by wisdom and faithfulness comes from Yahweh.


Over time, through prayer, counsel, and shared faith in Christ, the Lord gently directed our relationship toward covenant. He taught us that love is learned through obedience, humility, and trust in His will, not through our own strength or understanding. We remain aware of our need for His grace in every step.


As we enter marriage, we do so with thankful hearts, acknowledging our dependence on the Lord. Our desire is simply to honor His design, to walk faithfully together, and to reflect His goodness in the life He has entrusted to us.

Dress Code

principal sponsors:

Male: Barong Tagalog/ Suit; Modern Barong

Female: Long Gown/Dress; Modern Filipiniana

SECONDARY SPONSORS

Male: Modern Barong/ Suit/ Formal Wear

Female: Modern Filipiniana/ Dress / Formal Wear

guests


Male: Formal Wear/ Semi-Formal

Female: Formal Wear/ Semi-Formal

Gift Guide

With all that we have, we've been truly blessed.
Your presence and prayers are all that we request, But if you desire to give nonetheless,
Monetary gift is the one we suggest.

The Venue

Ceremony & Reception

BD Infinity Function Hall, 6th Floor, Roofdeck (RD) Ever O Hotel, Tomas Claudio Street, Zamboanga City

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Wedding Timeline


Ceremony

2:00 PM


Couple’s Photo Opportunities

4:00 PM


Dinner and Fellowship

4:30 PM


Prayer for the Food

Dinner

Personal Thank-You Rounds

AVP Presentation

Fellowship Time

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Do I need to RSVP?

    Yes, we kindly ask you to let us know if you will be able to attend, so we may prepare with care and consideration.


    Because our venue has limited capacity, the celebration will be by invitation only, and we can accommodate only those whose names are confirmed on the guest list.


    Please send your reply on or before December 20, 2025. Your kindness, prayers, and support mean more to us than words can express.


  • We already told the couple we’re coming. Do we still need to send an RSVP?

    Yes, a formal RSVP helps us practice good stewardship and ensures accurate seating and catering arrangements. We truly appreciate your thoughtfulness and cooperation.

  • I declined my RSVP earlier, but my plans changed and I can now attend. What should I do?

    Please inform us as soon as possible so we can check if seating is still available. We will update you with care and order. Thank you for your understanding.



  • I already confirmed, but something came up and I can no longer attend. What should I do?

    We understand that unexpected circumstances may arise. If you cannot attend, kindly let us know as soon as possible so we may reallocate your seat wisely. Your consideration are deeply appreciated.

  • May I bring a “plus one”?

    We would love to include everyone, but we are working within limited seating. Thank you for your understanding and love.

  • What time should guests arrive for the ceremony?

    We kindly ask guests to arrive before 2:00 PM to honor the solemnity of the ceremony and allow it to begin on time. Your punctuality reflects love and respect for everyone present.


  • When is it courteous and appropriate for guests to leave?

    We warmly invite you to stay until the Fellowship Program concludes. Your presence adds joy to the celebration, especially during the thank-you rounds, AVP, and fellowship time.


  • Can I still join the program if I arrive late to the ceremony

    You are welcome to join us, but we ask that you wait for our coordinators to guide you to an appropriate entry point to avoid disrupting the service.


  • May I choose my own seat at the reception

    We kindly ask that the assigned seating arrangement be honored. It was thoughtfully arranged to ensure order, comfort, and meaningful fellowship. Our coordinators will gladly help you find your designated seat.


  • When will dinner be served?

    Dinner begins promptly after the 4:30 PM prayer for the food. We invite guests to be seated so the meal and program may proceed smoothly.


  • Will the couple visit the tables?

    Yes! Our Personal Thank-You Rounds will take place during the Dinner & Fellowship Program. We look forward to personally greeting you.

  • When will the AVP be shown?

    Our prepared AVP will be presented during the Fellowship Program, after the thank-you rounds.

  • How can I support the couple and contribute to their joy throughout the day?

    You bless us when you reflect Christlike love and unity:

    • Pray with us for God’s grace and good weather.

    • Submit your RSVP early.

    • Dress appropriately and follow the motif.

    • Arrive on time.

    • Honor the assigned seating.

    • Stay for the whole program.

    • Participate joyfully in the activities.

    Your gracious presence is a precious gift to us.

  • May we take pictures during the ceremony?

    To maintain reverence, we kindly ask that you follow the photography guidelines for the 2:00 PM ceremony. You may freely take photos during the 4:00 PM photo session and the fellowship time.


  • Is there a dress code?

    Yes, we kindly ask guests to follow the attire and motif indicated in the invitation. Your cooperation contributes to the beauty and unity of the celebration.

  • Are children allowed?

    Please refer to your invitation for the number of seats allotted to your household. If seats for children are included, they are joyfully welcome. Thank you for understanding as we steward seating carefully.


  • Is parking available for attendees?

    Limited parking is available near the venue. The hotel has up to 10 complimentary parking slots, subject to availability on the day, as these spaces are shared with hotel guests. Details on the exact location of these slots will be finalized by the hotel management.


    Additional parking options are available at nearby areas, including ACLEM (Near Ideal Trading), SM City Mindpro, and Southway, where guests may park at their own convenience.


    For those who may wish to avail of the complimentary parking slots, further instructions will be provided once finalized by the hotel. Our coordinators will gladly assist you with guidance on parking upon arrival.


    Thank you for your patience, understanding, and gracious cooperation as we work within the venue’s limitations.


  • Will coordinators be available to help?

    Yes, our coordinators will be available throughout the event. They will assist with seating, timing, directions, and any concerns you may have. Please feel free to approach them - they are more than happy to help.

  • Who do we contact for questions before or during the wedding?

    Coordinator contact details will be provided. They will handle concerns so the couple may focus on the celebration.

  • Can I bring gifts to the venue?

    Your presence and prayers are already a great blessing to us. For those who wish to give, QR codes for cash gifts are provided for convenience. Physical gifts are also warmly accepted with gratitude, and we sincerely appreciate your generosity in any form.


  • Will there be time to fellowship with the couple and guests?

    Yes! The Fellowship Time at the end of the program is designed for warm connection, gratitude, and joyful celebration. We look forward to sharing this moment with you.

  • When can we take photos with the couple?

    The 4:00 PM photo session is open for group and personal photos. You are joyfully welcome to join us then.

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We are excited to celebrate our Wedding with our closest families and friends!


The favor of a response is requested before December 20, 2025. Thank you!

RAFFY AND MARY | RSVP